Our Mercy work was created in 1994 specifically to help and heal refugees , in particular young refugees, war orphans, or others whose family life has been totally disrupted by the wars in Africa. The security of a stable home brings healing and education diminishes fear of the future, replacing it with hope. Hence our motto: Love changes everything. Mercy House embodies this and our history has proved this to be true.
On Friday 16 July our residents awoke to an unpleasant surprise: thieves had come during the night and stolen most of our bicycles and all the washing from the wash lines. It was unnerving and everyone was downcast, since bicycles are our main means of transport.
By amazing co-incidence (or was it?), our BA Pilot co-worker, Stefan Bartkowiac, had planned to spend the day at Mercy House. Stefan and Diana arrived mid-morning; to meet an atmosphere of disbelief and gloom, but it did not have to last for long. A few months prior to this, Stefan had entered a British Airways Competition. Each entrant had had to specify a particular charity that the prize money would go to and what it would be used for in particular. Totally unaware of what was to come; Stefan had nailed his prize money down to being used for bicycles at Mercy House! What could have been more appropriate! So abracadabra again – the very same morning after the theft of our bikes, Stefan went out with his huge prize money, to go and buy replacement bikes for our people. Some may say, sheer con-incidence, but we would rather admire the remarkably kind and tender care of our God.
The 2nd picture shows Stefan on that very day (16.7.2010) and the 3rd photo reminds us that nothing is as powerful as example: every time Stefan comes to Mercy House (from the UK of course) he spends most of his time helping our boys to fix their bikes.
Our youngest orphan, Moise, must certainly have been inspired and impressed, because here he is giving bike-fixing a try himself.
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Another co-worker, Rosemary Benjamin,
who lives in Johannesburg, makes a most valuable contribution to our work, by taking as many of our residents as she can fit into her car, for outings at weekends. The pictures below show some of the joy experienced on some of these occasions.
News flash
Danny Swaka, Sudanese refugee who lived at Mercy House for a number of years, has just been resettled to Canada. We are very proud of Danny: we were able to get him through a 4 year teaching degree which he completed last year, and he was head student of his college for 2 whole years: another tribute to the greatness of his character. We wish our Danny everything of the very best for his future – SA is the poorer and Canada is the richer for this move! We know that he will keep in touch and that he will always remain part of our Mercy House family.
Immediate plans
We plan to have a picnic at the park and our usual marathon round the park on 24 September, a public holiday, which should be great fun. The picture shows last year’s winner, Festus, who may or may not be able to do it again: watch this space!
It was the end of May when a young Angolan refugee came and asked if there was anyway we could help him and his girl friend, (both orphans), to set up a hair salon in the then dirty and disused garage on the property where he lives.
Both are very good at doing hair styles for their respective genders! It seemed like another mission impossible but we remembered a gentleman who had said that he was willing to help someone to set up a small business. Abracadabra and it was done! Amazing, he was so magnanimous about it too, sending through funding very specifically and only for this project. Getting it all done was quite nerve-wracking. The disused garage was such a mess when we first started out : paint peeling everywhere, dirt and etc! But we managed and they opened their little business on 22 June! Today that garage is totally transformed, as the photos show, and on day 1 there were even 2 small boys sitting waiting for haircuts!
Our two young people are so thrilled. but we are too, because once again, through the kindness of God and the generosity of others, a dream has really come true for these 2 young people who have had very tough lives. This is the rope which God has let down for them so that they can support themselves and find a means of survival. “Glory to Him whose power, working in us, can do infinitely more than we can ask for or imagine” St. Paul.
The picture shows Richard who has been AT Mercy House since 2004. Not only has he been a real gem as regards human relationships and community building, he has also been a house leader for some time. A person of real integrity, warmth and kindness, it is a very great loss to us but, at the same time, fantastic news for him. Two weeks ago he heard that a request for re-settlement made several years back and which he had almost forgotten, has come through. He heard that he will be resettled to Norway and there the Norwegian government gives refugees as warm welcome, a home, study opportunities and a lot more. Richard’s flight to a new world was scheduled for Saturday 19 June 2010, a very, very sudden departure. We were at least able to have a farewell party for him on Sunday 13 June and he is seen here with his parting gift in his hand. We wish Richard everything of the best in his new life and have no doubt at all that he will be a huge blessing to everyone, no matter where God chooses to place him in this world. We thank you for everything you have done for our community Richard and GO WELL.
Learning to help at an early age
It was a great effort for Mafuno to carry his little sister up the stairs but he managed all the same: great example for us all as to how to live….
A husband and wife, who were separated when fleeing from their home country and were reunited through and at Mercy House this year in April,
Likewise, a lady who had to leave her child behind when she fled is seen here at the airport welcoming her little boy from whom she had been separated for nearly a year, due to having to leave her home country in haste.
“We are very proud of our former house leader, Eddie, who this mid-year completed his four-year degree in Electrical Engineering and in fact has just started his first job with the company that sponsored him. He is seen in the picture with Moise, one of our youngest residents at Schoenstatt in Bedfordview.”
Mercy house was graced with a visit, on Sunday 6 June 2010, from a team of the art of living, an international movement which provides humanitarian aid to charities. They overwhelmed us with an enormous donation of food which is very welcome and also inspired our residents in sharing with them what they do to help others.
Father John (Left) and Richard Right) holding the farewell gifts we had prepared for them at our farewell celebration on 21 February.
It is always hard to say goodbye to someone greatly loved, and this time it was goodbye to one of our “greats.” Father John Converset of the Comboni Missionaries, has been with us since 2001, giving ever increasing support to our Mercy work. Apart from his guidance, practical help and general backup, he was instrumental in accessing funding for our Play Centre, which has become a great source of joy, relaxation, friendship and healing. On Sunday 21 February we had a “braai” lunch and celebration to thank Father John for all he has done for us and to bid him farewell.
In the photo Mr Peter Holding, our accountant and member of our management team, is giving a farewell speech. In the background on the left is Anja, our young German volunteer who will also be leaving us soon – so quite a few goodbyes seem to be on our current agenda!
Ms Tish Holding, Sister Fidelis and Father John, all of our management team, about to enjoy the lovely lunch provided mainly by Tish and Peter HOlding, at our farewell for Father John.
Sister Fidelis’ Diamond Jubilee
Well, her surname is Diamond, and she certainly is one of the jewels in our Mercy House crown. She made it to her diamond jubilee too: On 6 February Sister celebrated the 60th anniversary of her religious profession with a Mass and luncheon. Father John concelebrated at the Holy Mass and a Mercy House contingent attended. In the photo we see two young refugee priests
Father Robert on the left and Father Paulin on the right- who were assisted by Sister when they first arrived, together with Sister and Diana on the very happy occasion.
FAREWELL TO RICHARD -ATLEAST FOR THIS YEAR
Well, like Samson, he has cut his long locks by now and has temporarily left Mercy House for distant KZN, to do a year’s practical which is necessary as a third year in his studies for a degree in Mechanical Engineering.
We bade farewell to him on Sunday 21 February on the same occasion as we said goodbye to our beloved Father John. We will miss Richard greatly but he will be back: no one likes to leave Mercy House that we know…..
As an aside, in this photo Richard was wearing one of the jackets sent out from St Richards by Ms Judy McGregor to Mercy House last year. Smart boy was feeling good in his classy attire!
Anja, our young volunteer from Germany, in the boot of Diana’s car. We were on our way to Mass and could not fit in all the hopeful travellers, so Anja found the solution and seemed quite happy there – as she said: Far more room in there than being squashed up in the back of the car!
Donatien gave a farewell speech on behalf of the refugees at Father John’s farewell. He is currently a 2nd year nursing student.
Our beloved Shadadi meeting his mother after a separation of 11 years, during which time he could not even remember what she looked like! 1 December 2009, the greatest day in Shadadi’s life, no doubt, and the surest proof that God is with us and working the most amazing miracles in our midst…
The Picture of All Pictures
Shadadi with his mother (Left) and grandmother (Right) just before they had to flee from the war
when he got lost in 1998
Shadadi when he came to us at Mercy House in 2001
Diana’s Quick Interview
Stefan’s Visit
The BA Pilot, Stefan arrived at Mercy house on Sunday 10th January afternoon.
Stefan has been a huge blessing. When he arrived he immediately started working. Repairing our electricity, our pool table. He checked our bicycles and fixed those which needed to be fixed and all old bicycles were replaced by new ones.
Monday 11th January School re-opened and Mercy House residents went back to school with the smile.
At Mercy House all residents use bicycles to go to School.
Diana taking a break from the hectic activity on the Sunday of B.A. pilot Stefan’s visit – with two of our Mercy House VIPs: Princess and Lady, who add so much love, warmth, joy, and fun to our community.